Some time ago, Brant Hansen posted this excellent schematic of how we process ideas: http://www.air1.com/blog/brant/post/2012/04/16/New-Idea-Processor!.aspx
I think this is pretty accurate. Anytime we see a news story or some study that agrees with our preconceived ideas, we tend to take it as truth. And if it stands in contradiction to our beliefs, we immediately dismiss it as false. This is human nature. It's called pride--and it's really hard to let go.
Compounding this problem is fear--the fear of rejection. I know this because I feel it every time I think to go against the flow of what my friends and family may believe. I was raised in a conservative family. Doesn't that make me legally obligated to side with the conservative opinion on all issues? That's what it can feel like sometimes.
Take a step back for a moment. Why do we let the opinions of other people and the politics of this human government get us all riled up? Why do we always feel the need to correct everyone that we perceive as "wrong"? Why are we so hungry for control?
I tell you, the way we argue and fight over politics is not Biblical. We are too afraid of what man might do to us instead of placing our trust in God. We would rather complain about what we have no control over than focus on being a light where we are at. We are more concerned with spouting our own political agendas than listening to what others might have to say. And that makes us no better than the politicians sitting in congress.
One of my favorite chapters in the Bible is Isaiah 58. Every time I read it, I have to ask myself, is he speaking to me? Am I the one who "delights to draw near to God" all the while "seeking my own pleasure" and "hiding myself from my own flesh"?
If you take away the yoke from your midst, the pointing of the finger, and speaking wickedness, if you pour yourself out for the hungry and satisfy the desire of the afflicted, then shall your light rise in the darkness and your gloom be as the noonday. -- Isa. 58:9-10The thing that struck me about this passage the last time I read it, is that this is being spoken to a people in exile--a people just like us. Israel was under foreign rule (and they didn't have voting rights back in Babylon), the people uprooted from their land, and yet here God was still offering hope if only they would mend their ways. If only they would learn to walk in justice, mercy, and humility.
We need to stop always pointing the finger saying "He did it." We need to start standing for truth even when it runs contrary to ourselves. We need to listen, to put ourselves into the shoes of other people, look through their glasses before judging. They're probably more like you than you think. We need to learn to take up our own responsibility for building this nation and building the Kingdom--focusing on our part instead of dictating to others their part. We need to let go of our need for control, to surrender everything into our Father's hands. And we need to encourage and support each other in this.
Laws don't change hearts. The government will always fall far far short. The only hope for our nation is the light of Messiah--for through His light we are given the instructions of life and a love of kindness, righteousness, blessing, compassion, life, and peace. It's a heart thing, and only God can change hearts. We just have to keep walking in His light day by day.
The flip side of your argument might be found in Ezekiel chapter 33. I know that many people think they are the watchmen (women). What happens to them if they are silent?
ReplyDeleteI think in that case it's really important to closely examine one's motives. The idea of a watchman is to warn the people *that they might turn*. You see both in Proverbs (9:7-9; 23:9) and in Matthew (7:6) that the obligation to reprove a man only applies if you see a chance of them turning. The problem I see is people who are more concerned with getting their message out than actually affecting the people they are speaking to. Too often I think our words do more to push people away than they do to truly change hearts.
ReplyDeleteThe thing that I am learning to do for myself is to ask myself this question before I speak: "Is what I am saying for the purpose of encouraging and challenging this person in their walk? Or is it just to satisfy my own need to say something..." Not that I always follow this perfectly. I certainly did some venting here in this article. But I'm learning.
I understand what you are saying in the article. You made some valid points. I agree with most of what you are saying and yes, most people like to hear themselves talk.
DeleteIn Ezekiel it doesn't say anything about the other people listening. It puts their blood on your head if you don't warn them. If you just warn them and don't hammer them every time you see them I think you have done your job. It is not my job or your job to pry their eyes open to what you (or I) think that we see.
Hopefully we are all still learning. When you stop learning you stop growing.